I am looking for sub bottoms who know how to please a master, or are willing to be taught. A submissive who has a list of things he expects his master to do to him, or that he expects to do for his master, has got the wrong idea. A sub who shows up, says nothing, and sits at his master's feet awaiting the expression of his master's will can be made use of. You have to be able to handle some serious s/m. I suppose I should mention that long emails telling me how much you understand what I mean indicate that while you may understand intellectually what a real submissive is, you have not at all internalized it.

Oinas