I seek a Master who achieves pleasure when He tests and expands my limits and I work at giving Him my all. I am not a slave, but I want to work with Him to achieve mutual pleasure. To me, many BDSM relationships are not stable because the Master is too much into control and power expression. To me, a richer BDSM relationship is when both the Master and Submissive know each other well enough that the Master strains the limits of his submissive but never tries to break him. I also like a Master who can genuinely smile.

Aquarius

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Butt

Brown

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Research / Science / Engineering

Sales Assistant

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Brain

Strange

Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Internet, Dining, Travel, Gardening, Camping, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking

come up with a mutual decision of what's OK for both of us

I'm a novice in some ways, but I want to be fisted lovingly/pierced together/tattooed together/watersported/flogged lovingly/roped & tied/share myself (my fears and dreams and the control of my body) with a Master who does it out of love rather than a power/control trip.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Other

Never

At this point, my goal is to focus on me getting happiness in my life. For too long, I've bent and adapted to what others wished for to be loving and accomodating to them. In return, it seems that my efforts go unappreciated. So now, it's time for me to be selfish and work for what I want. This goes for getting a job, a home, and a sexual situation that suits me right. I don't have any of these now, thus I'm ready to try anew.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

News, I Don't Like Tv

I Don't Like Movies

Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Soul

Nature, Political, Science

Expressing myself by doing. This not only means employment, but sex/sexuality and exploring/nurturing nature and imagining what if.

Intelligence, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I know this sounds incredibly stupid, but I'm looking for a Master who can smile. I've gone to bars over the years, and despite years of looking, I've never seen a guy who's obviously a top give a genuine (not a power trip) smile back to others. I have no desire to allow others to even mess with me if all they want is a power trip. To me, a truly stable BDSM relationship is when both the Master and the Submissive are actively thinking from each others' perspective.

Intimate