Well, I am 28yo and am just coming off of a ten year relationship. Yes you read correctly... your eyes are not betraying you. I said 10 year relationship. I am looking to spread my wings a bit. Given that from 18 til now I have been with one guy I am not looking to jump right into another LTR. But given that I have been in a long term relationship I would definitely say that my goal is to once again love someone and live my life alongside that person. I am relationship material. I have already proven that much to myself.

So I am looking to learn, grow... come into my own. No expectations other than that.

I am a tad bit of a submissive top in the sheets but am very forthcoming and strong willed otherwise. I have a soft spot for bears, short hair is always a plus. I have a 'thing' about intellect. I require my date be able to carry on a conversation on a wide variety of topics. I tend to be long winded... but luckily that is not limited to speech only.

As a Submissive Top, my bottoms wish is my command. If he wants to collar me and ride me into an oblivion... so be it. If he wants me to be big and intimidating, his wish is my command. Bondage and leather are the name of my game. This is all in the context of a trustworthy relationship. Binding me on a first date doesn't quite fly.

I have a sense of humor and often show my affection by poking fun of things I think are cute about you. If I joke with you then I like you. We all have strange quirks and thats just one of mine.

I have many faults as well as many graces. I tend to lay my faults as I see them on the table and if you are still interested in learning about my graces... they will present themselves over time. Giving you more to look forward to.

I work as a Computer Tech and Graphic Designer but as of January 3rd I am leaving NYC and my Ex behind as I make for a new start in Worcester. Gaming is my addiction. I tend to be a home body spending my time either reading or playing WoW. I do go to the gym. I started in Feb of 2007 and have lost 45lbs from then to now. I have started a new regimen that has given me some impressive, for me, results. So while I may not be a beefy muscle bear yet... I am well on my way. I am at the gym 5-6 days a week usually.

There is more to tell... I am sure you got that idea. If you got this far and are still interested... drop me a line.

Cancer

Stocky

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Other

Single

No

No

Lips

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

Black

Cat

Yes

Some College

Self-employed

Computers / Electronic

Owner

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - One Or Two

Outcast

Boisterous, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Travel, Cars, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends

A good scary movie, an interesting dinner complete with slight glances and stolen kisses, and an intense... nite.

I always wanted to try going camping and and having sex under the stars while tied to a tree.

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

Buddhist / Taoist

Once A Year

I Don't Like Politics

My goal in life is to become successfully self employed and live it all out comfortably.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Sadistic

Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Documentary, Horror

Rock, Metal

Computers, Fiction, Horror, Science Fiction, Technical

MY idea of fun is being either at home gaming, fucking or laughing. Anything that can get me to those places are great. Well I also like getting tattooed, a huge turn on pain wise.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Wit

I look for honesty, a need to be protected, a nice ass, a sharp wit and an even sharper kiss.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed