hi, i'm jack and i live in oakland. i'm 27, 190, kind of a stocky, grungy punk, artist and musician. i'm a deep thinker who loves to laugh, talk, watch horror movies and read comics. i'm hoping to meet a fun bdsm top with a sense of humor to have a relationship with... someone who can be my friend outside the bedroom and my disciplinarian within it. i'm a friendly guy so tap me and say hi...

Virgo

Stocky

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Butt

Blonde

Cat

No

Some College

Unemployed

Art / Music / Literature

wage slave

Less Than $14,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Socially

Yes - Socially

Outcast

Shy, Boisterous, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing, Dark, Strange

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dining, Cooking, Camping

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

we'd probably discuss a public place to meet, and then explore the area around us. maybe get a drink, sit in the park, go some where one of us loves and wants to share with the other, or maybe somewhere random. the first date is about getting to know one another and seeing where our chemistry lies. i play the game as it moves... sometimes it leads straight to the sack, but i dont have an agenda, & i'm in no hurry.

traveling to new orleans, chicago, new york, canada or europe.i want to see a ghost or a ufo. i'd like to write a childrens book/screenplay/comic. i'd like to try bottoming more (in fucking ive always been more of a top). the list of what i wouldn't try is probably smaller than the list of things i would...

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

my goal in life is to be happy and find balance. i dont need to be famous, but i'd like to satisfy and pursue my creative pursuits more. who knows what the point of being here is, but if i enjoy the journey and make friends along the way, all the better.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy, Sadistic

I Wish I Had A Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Pop, I'm A Recording Artist, Blues, Industrial, Punk

Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Music, Mystery, Poetry, Science Fiction

I can have alot of fun doing nothing as long as i enjoy the company of the person i'm doing nothing with. I really like walking around places of natural beauty, exploring urban landscapes, going out to shows or block parties/fairs/festvals, i'm not much of a bar guy, but if there's some sort of spectacle i'll enjoy it. talking, debating, museums, plays, gallery openings, whatever... as long as were enjoying ourselves and relating...

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

all the guys ive been really into have been weirdos on the fringe... guys who were artistic, quirky and possessing of a youthful energy...lovers of music, art, novelty and sub culture. they also have all been masculine, a little goofy and introspective. i'm not looking for a "type"... i'm looking for a genuine connection and friendship with someone real who looks at the world as an outsider looking in.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed