Engels

I was born plain white trash. After years of expensive education I am now white trash with a finely-tuned sense of irony. I'm queer, a freak pussy who likes pussy too. I can carry on a nuanced, informed conversation about art, politics, culture before you fuck me up. I want you to fuck me up. The more it hurts the more it means. I've got secrets I want to tell you and stories I need to play out. I'm searching for all my demons, all you devils and your deeds.

Kreeft

Gemiddeld

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Groen

Blank

Single

Nee

Nee

Ogen

Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren, Zichtbare tatoeage

Rood

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Graduate student/Composition instructor

Tussen de €15.000 en €30.000

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Stil

Gereserveerd, Opmerkzaam, Donker

Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Films, Internet, Dansen, Gezin, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Theater, Koken

Thuis blijven, Films, Een boek lezen, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

You pick me up. You smile at me, say hello. We go out for dinner, talk quietly. You charm me, take charge. We go to a movie, or maybe a concert. You hold my hand, put your arm around me. We go for a walk, or to a coffee house. We come back home. Together. You tilt my chin at the angle you want, lean in to kiss me. Whisper in my ear. Tell me what I need to hear.

Dance classes (I've taken them before, in college, but I'd like to do more). Learning to speak French or German. Learning to play piano, or taking up the clarinet again (I played as a kid).

Ranzig, Obscuur

Agnostisch

Nooit

In terms of my career, I'm working towards my Ph.D. in English. From there, I intend to continue teaching at university, publishing a little. Eventually I'd like to move to Europe (Germany, ideally). As to my private life, who knows? If I map out the journey too soon I could miss seeing the forest for the trees.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch

Ik hou niet van tv

Drama

Rock, Klassiek, Folk

Klassiek , Fictie, Geschiedenis, Muziek, Filosofie, Politiek, Poëzie, Ik ben een schrijver

Live music; could be a concert, the symphony, the opera. A local book reading or lecture. An afternoon at the museum. A dance performance. Great movies, on DVD at home or out at the cineplex. A night at the theater. A long walk in the park.

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Gevoeligheid, Moed, Eigenaardigheden, Geld, Macht, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

A guy who is into the psychology behind the sex, who gets off on inflicting emotional as well as physical pain; who likes to fuck with minds as much as he likes to fuck holes; who has a talent for humiliation, exploiting hidden shame, inspiring fear. I won't give up control easily. I'm too self-protected. Wreck my defenses. Take me deeper into my pain. Not into switch/vers guys or master/slave bullshit, which is just costumes and play-acting. There’s a big distinction between B&D (which is just weak posturing) and S&M (which I respond to much more deeply). I don't need to be tied up. Pain is more meaningful if I receive it as an act of will. Ropes, cuffs, hoods, all that bondage shit: a turnoff. If you need to restrain me or wear a special hat to get what you want I won't be impressed. I want a true sadist. Overpower me with your inner strength, your drive to see me break; your amused look as your hands are on my throat; your cold grin as you force me to tongue-clean your boots.

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid